Head of Household ( D. Sunny)

Why do black men complain so much about being the head of the household?

I’ve heard everything from what do women do to the Willie Lynch process that has been embedded since slavery being the reason that they can’t provide but I’m clueless. Why is it that when they want a pair of shoes or to impress a new lady that they go out of their ways to get money. Why is it that they can take care of all their babies (some of them) who are their responsibilities but can’t take care of their household which is also their responsibility? Why is it that black men find excuse after excuse to be the man but they can’t handle the fact that a black woman will become the aggressor if he isn’t? Somebody gotta wear the pants right?

I just had this long conversation with a guy who is an awesome father but half A$$ provides in a relationship and he questions what the role of a woman is in the household if he provides financially. What planet are these men on to not realize money isn’t the only thing that keeps a relationship?

I’d like to know from a woman’s prospective. If the woman is there to be the helpmate then we cannot be the head. If we become the provider we become drill sergeants and not the lady they want us to be. More like BEOTRICE they don’t want us to be like!!!

What are your thoughts? We do need to tone down the Diva Beotrice mentality in the 2009 but they have to MAN UP too.