HE/SHE SAID

LORD HELP US!!! (D. Sunny)

ARE U SERIOUS?? In an abandon building on Detroit's west side police found the body of a homeless man encasted in 2-3 feet of ice. All but his legs were in a block of ice in the elevator shaft of the building near 14th and Michigan Ave, known as the Roosevelt Warehouse. It was said that this man had been there for at least a month. Police received a call from some dude that acted like he was another homeless man and friend of the decest but it turns out he was some guy that collected ice from the building last week so that he and his friends could play ice hockey. Are you that excited to play ice hockey that you can't take 5 minutes of your precious time to pick up your cell phone off your hip to call 911? This is ridiculous! I wouldn't let a cat freeze to death in Michigan weather. More than 1 and 50 people in Detroit are said to be homeless. Shelters are so packed that they may not a chair for you to sit let alone a spare bed. Ten percent of United States citizens are homeless. People loosing jobs on their way to the same...what is this world coming to. Did anyone read the story of the parents in California who decided to commit suicide and take their beautiful 5 children w/ them all because they lost their jobs. God Help Us!!

The Need For Real Men (L.Sleepe)

In my study of this subject I've come to many conclusions. Everyday I hear a woman stress the need for a real man! If your a female and your definition of a real man consist of some guy paying the bills, fixing your cars, handling physical altercations,etc., then you are sadly mistaken. If you are a male and your definition consist of being in control of everything, and everyone bowing to your will or violence will ensue, then your sadly mistaken.
A man is defined by several different things. I believe you cannot truly judge who is a ''man'' or ''woman'' until later in life because you are only as good as what you have come up against. The decisions YOU made in life. The actions YOU took in times of peace and war. Did you stand against adversity? Did you learn from your own mistakes? Where you a student, as well as, a teacher in life?
We as a whole must shape the ''man''. Women, instead of always complaining, take action. Teach the man you love proper ways to be a man, as you see it! Everybody is different. Tell your man what you want but have the patients to work at it. Nothing happens overnight! Be fair, equal, and respectful. This means as a unit you AND him pay bills, raise the children, and make life decisions. Most important women, as much respect as you demand should be given. Men, we must listen to our women more, and not just hear them! We need to realize we cannot control anything completely but ourselves. Pick and choose your battles. Not physically but mentally. Be calm and rational. Admit when your wrong, but don't keep making the same mistakes. Make a conscious assessment of your faults and short comings. Work on your weaknesses. Find truth in your heart. Have faith in yourself and your abilities. Strive everyday to improve!
Nobody is perfect, so don't be afraid to teach the youth around you. Teach them from your experiences, good and bad. If men and women do this and other positive things, there will be an abundance of GOOD MEN!!

Why is Homosexuality being pushed on America? (B. Troye)

I was talking with a woman that I am dating and we saw the Mikey D’s commercial with the guy that is singing to the light skin chick. Her daughter came in and said the dude was gay from his mannerism and the tone of the commercial. I laughed and the woman told her daughter to stop saying that. So I asked her why, and she replied because Wanda Sykes and other gay people have urged people to stop using the phrase “that’s so gay”! Later she told me that she was joking but I don’t believe her! My point is this; if something is gay its gay, if something is fucked up it’s fucked up. I call a dog a dog not a cat! I am sick of homosexuals trying to push their sexual orientation off on the world. They are teaching about this bull in school, it’s all over the TV. How do you explain sex the a child that sees it at 8 but more importantly how do you answer a child's question about 2 dudes or 2 chicks at 8. Look I am truly happy that gay people aren’t afraid of being gay but do that over there or somewhere else. I am sick and tired of every time someone comes out of the closet its big news. Well I am heterosexual and I love vagina! I am coming out everyone tell the news that I am a hetero, since homosexuality gets pushed on us I am going to start pushing my heterosexuality on people every chance I get. If people don’t like it good because I am sick of homosexuality getting pushed on us!

What is the fate of the world if all these kids are doing each other and they are of the same sex?
One thing not only to gays but to everyone, the decisions you make effect more than just yourself.
You think your family really accepts you but they deal with you because they love you. You don’t see how hurt your parents are and they ask where they went wrong raising you. Trust me I have a gay girl cousin and I have a gay guy cousin that died from AIDS! In the bible it states that homosexuality is an abomination against God. For dudes that shit is just nasty if God wanted you to be a chick you would have a slit. Furthermore, chicks you will always be a chick stop trying to be boys. You will always have breast, a pussy and a period and last time I checked that was all women stuff. No matter how many people you do from the opposite sex you are what you were born to be! Am I gay bashing? Nope, I am truth telling! Moreover, I just think it’s a fad for all of you anyway but if it is a fad and you are a follower, you are going to follow down too many dark holes (pun intended) and come up with something you can’t get rid of!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Head of Household ( D. Sunny)

Why do black men complain so much about being the head of the household?

I’ve heard everything from what do women do to the Willie Lynch process that has been embedded since slavery being the reason that they can’t provide but I’m clueless. Why is it that when they want a pair of shoes or to impress a new lady that they go out of their ways to get money. Why is it that they can take care of all their babies (some of them) who are their responsibilities but can’t take care of their household which is also their responsibility? Why is it that black men find excuse after excuse to be the man but they can’t handle the fact that a black woman will become the aggressor if he isn’t? Somebody gotta wear the pants right?

I just had this long conversation with a guy who is an awesome father but half A$$ provides in a relationship and he questions what the role of a woman is in the household if he provides financially. What planet are these men on to not realize money isn’t the only thing that keeps a relationship?

I’d like to know from a woman’s prospective. If the woman is there to be the helpmate then we cannot be the head. If we become the provider we become drill sergeants and not the lady they want us to be. More like BEOTRICE they don’t want us to be like!!!

What are your thoughts? We do need to tone down the Diva Beotrice mentality in the 2009 but they have to MAN UP too.

Women nag so much!! (D.Nuttz)

These days it is very hard to find a woman that truly wants to be with you for the man that you are. Women will stay with you because they see potential in you, and drag a relationship until it goes sour, that's when the nagging begins!!! Money is the main culprit for women to nag. It's O.K. for a women to not have any money in American society. She will not be looked at as a loser, or failure. On the other hand, a mans status depends on salary. Women stop taking everything on T.V., and movies for face value or you are sure to be unhappy!! The man you all describe has many women, because you all want him!!! Now what can you do to make his life happy? No matter how hard a man tries, makes moves, and put forth effort, a women will still nag him about money!!! I was in a six year relationship that I thought would last. The end result was me being as loser because I couldn't take care of her, like she wanted. Believe me there is no man out there that dreams about taking care of a women!! I tried so hard!! Just wasn't enough.
Attention is another cause for nagging. Fellas, no matter what you do, a women will never get enough attention. If you nag a man too much, he's gonna do the opposite of what your nagging about. So instead of nagging about being treated like a queen, try treating him like a king and see what happens!! I'm sick of women being made out to be such victims!! If you don't like the situation get out of it quick. Yall can go date as many men as you want free of charge, whereas a man has to spend money to date. Also men if you're being nagged too much, get out of the situation, because you will soon be replaced. Don't be like me; lonely while my ex is enjoying life dating different men. Keep some insurance (other women) so the transition will be smooth. I learned my lesson, and I don't think I'll ever be a one-woman man again!!! My ex told me to get my money right and maybe we can be together. What a joke. I'd rather be a gigolo!!